Dear Future Wife,
Hey beautiful, so this week you’ve really been on my mind a lot. I tend to find myself thinking about you, probably because last week my grandma insisted that I should settle down and marry. See how eager we all are to meet you?
It’s got me thinking of where you are, what you are doing and what you love. Thinking of how I’ll be dumbfounded when you smile and giggle (I bet you have a cute chuckle). To be honest, of late I’ve been pretty lonely (Yes, I admit it, I feel alone of late, especially when my best friend, you’ll love her, keeps telling me about her perfect relationship). So I usually drift and think of how we’ll be together eating Krackles. Oh you will have to love Krackles. I will make you love them.
It sucks that you are not here already but I figured I’d write this letter to you, wherever you are to reassure you that I cannot wait for you to get here and let you know what’s been going on in my life.
For starters I’ve been trying to be a better man. I’ve been letting God Tailor make me to be inch perfect for you. Despite faulting here and there, I’m letting him transform me to be much better, stronger and wiser.
Things have been picking up quite well; I’m not exactly where I anticipated being in life right now, but it’s gotten better and better. I feel like a new me, as though fate is finally pursuing me. I feel as if my stars are finally aligning (sounds cliché and all but I really do).
I hope you won’t get deterred away when you meet me. I’m pretty much of a dumbass and I kid around a lot with my geeky side but I assure you I am worth it. I am worth the wait. I should warn you early, you will have a hard time convincing my mum, she’s a toughie, but she’s cool people am sure you’ll love her. It takes a while to crack her, but once you do, you will enjoy her crazy funny side. Dad on the other hand is always cool and calm; I bet you’ll get along great with him. My siblings are just the best. You will adore them. They are my rock; they’ve made me who I am today.
I can’t wait to meet your family as well. I hope your dad isn’t a tough one. He won’t give me a hard time will he? I’m short, he better not manhandle me…lol… You better have my back at that point.
I can’t wait to be involved with you. Love the lady that you are and keep on falling in love with the amazing lady that you have the potential to be. Sharing your dreams with me, and telling me all your secrets and your flaws you don’t even have to tell me because I will love them too. I promise that I will embrace you and your imperfections.
I reflect on how I haven’t met you yet, I’m sure you’re somewhere out there getting your life in order as well.
So in the meantime, I will keep on preparing and building myself to be the right man for you. And if I have met you already, I pray that you think am worth it all.
P.S I am a wild roller coaster (in a good way). I bet we’ll have lots of fun together. And I’m usually not this cheesy but for you, aah what the heck.
I’m sorry, I just lied to you. I am cheesy. Very cheesy. Better start getting used to it.
I will give you an update soon.
I am here, patiently waiting.
Jay, Your Future Husband.